by Jason Manning Many "secular" people see us "religious" people as a modern band of Zoramites -- closed-off, self-righteous, and content in the knowledge of our own superiority. And that's how we act sometimes, when we stamp our feet while shrilly and personally condemning those who disagree with us. Or to use Elder Maxwell's phrasing we are very good at "cursing the darkness" and not so good at "lighting candles." Too often we assign a lesser value to the souls of those whose stances or behavior don't meet our standards, walling them off from our lives and our beliefs. Imagine for a moment what our behavior looks like from the other side. At times we probably seem vicious or even a bit crazy for trying to hold people accountable to standards they may never have heard of, or don't believe in, or don't understand. Those who don't agree with us have often taken a sincere and searching route to their own conclusions. But we sometimes dismiss their efforts and their experience because, for whatever reason, they haven't arrived at the same conclusion we have. When we do that, we fail to consider why and how they got where they are. One can have horribly bad political ideas and be a good person, and one can express adherence to the best principles and be a skunk. Not being able to condemn those with whom we disagree as purely rotten makes our lives more difficult, but the Prophet Joseph said he would never condemn a man merely for his beliefs. (edited by David Van Alstyne) Home / For Latter-day Saints |